• Relationship with the mother in-law

    Posted on December 1, 2012 by in Testimonials, Using the cards

    The relationship with the in-laws may create quite a lot of stress. In one particular situation, the wife was hurt by the attitude & constant ‘battles‘ from the mother in law. The husband was torn between his wife and his mother and decided to try and keep the peace by ignoring the issue. In the end this caused so much stress that it effected the relationship of the couple in a bad way. Using the skills leaned from the Couplecards the couple when through this episode once again. The wife immediately pick up the feeling card ‘I am hurt’ , the husband realized what he had been doing and raised the card ‘Avoid the issue’ and relaised that it was a ‘Bad move’ and he in fact was just creating a bigger problem by ignoring the sitation. Understanding the need to move on they both made several ‘Good moves’ by ‘Understand what the other person was feeling’ and ‘Discuss the problem together’. This had a beautiful effect on the relationship and the husband actually picked up ‘I am sorry’ from the ‘Making up mood’ these the three most important words in a relationship. Due to the fact that they had the opportunity to understand what each other had felt, the wife immediately picked the card ‘I forgive you ‘ and they went together to discuss the matter with the in laws as they both realized that having a rapport with the in-laws was essential for their happiness this time they set-up the boundaries 

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